This comes up often and never fails to make me incandescant because dealers really should know better
If you take a multimeter and put the positive probe on the "special" jump start post in the engine bay fuse box and put the negative probe to any unpainted nut, screw, bolt, or bodywork, it will show 12V.
There is no hidden or 'special' 12V source in that fuse box, or in the engine bay, or anywhere else for that matter. The 12V you're measuring is coming from one source and one source only, and that is the 12V battery at the back of the car, in the boot.
That battery and that 'special' jump start post in the engine bay fuse box are directly connected to each other by a big cable. Ergo, 12V at the front is exactly the same as 12V at the back and it makes not one iota of difference whatsoever, which you choose to connect your jump leads to.
The one and only reason not to connect directly to the battery is that the battery can generate hydrogen gas and there is a very small risk of ignition and an explosion if the jump leads spark when being disconnected.
After more than 45 years of driving and 'hobby mechanic-ing' and after asking family, friends, workmates and others, not a single person has had personal experience of this, nor have they ever heard of it happening to anyone else, so it would appear to be more of a theoretical risk than a practical one.
In conclusion, both the battery at the back and the jump post at the front are absolutely identical and equally viable places to connect jump leads/battery pack to from an electrical point of view.