I understand where you are coming from.
Several times I discussed with my wife what car to buy next, something I'd buy that I really want and not for being the fastest or most economic or the best looking design etc.
There really is very little out there that I like any more. I have no interest in cars like fords, vauxhalls and what I class as more middle range cars as I have had them over the years and frankly the older cars were in my opinion far better.
I always come back to Lexus now. Even if I went for something sporty now I'd probably look at an isf and if I'm going for a compromise of luxury and performance then I'd get another gs450 or the ls.
I dont think I have become too snobby driving Lexus over the years and they are certainly not without there problems but compared to other brands I still feel less likely to be breaking down in the Lexus than any other car on the road.
As said before, with the more technical hybrid cars I'd definitely pay the extra for the warranty just for piece of mind. With the non hybrid cars I would not be as concerned as these seem pretty well proven.
I still feel something special driving in the Lexus and still glance back every time I park up, enough said.
Carl