Very sorry to hear about your car, First step is to ring your insurance and report the accident, try and get a case number or crime number from the police and the number of the station dealing with the crime.
I know you don't want to hear this but looking at the damage most probably will be written off? Sorry.
You could get independant advice and if theres no chassis damage and it's just cosmetic, you could buy it back from insurance company and replace doors, wing ect yourself from a breakers yard.
The wings just bolt on, replace both doors, bit of paint and filler on rear arch.....job done.